Doing Things Together
One of the most challenging, rewarding responsibilities I’ve had is working in the tech space. I’m drawn to innovation and disruptive technologies that really connect people — from mobile games and smartphones to pet technology that can literally give pets a voice (AI/ML). I have a lifelong love of learning and tinkering.
Most importantly, I love being a mom (aka Chief Mom Officer), and it’s a tough gig! For this week’s fiver, here are tips to make the most of family time.
1) Calendar to plan everything
The all-important calendar is necessary to plan every appointment, party, meeting, lesson, and to-do’s. I can always check it on my phone, get reminder alerts, and it gives me the semblance of being organized.
2) Order essentials in bulk
Why buy TP or paper towels as one-offs? Ordering in bulk on a recurring schedule is a great way to save time and to ensure you never run out of the important things. What did I ever do before Amazon?
3) Pack lunches the night before
I’m not that good at origami, but I’ve gotten creative with preparing bento box style lunches. This is effective with picky eaters, and a great way of showing you care (notice the hearts?). I prep lunches the night before, so I don’t feel rushed in the mornings.
4) Spend quality time; ask thoughtful questions
Compromises are made every day. One area I don’t negotiate is spending quality time with the kids daily. I’ll think of ways to engage them with questions (peppered with hugs).
Questions like: What was the most interesting thing you learned today? Did you like the lunch I packed for you? What made you smile? Who did you play with today? Did anything bother or upset you? (why?)
5) Organize weekly baking / other creative projects
I’m no Martha Stewart, and neither is the hubs. But together, we make a great team when it comes to cooking up projects with kid-friendly themes. Weekends are the best to do things together, and Sundays are designated Sunday Fundays.
Well, that’s it for this week’s fiver.
How do you manage time with loved ones? Suggestions always welcome.
FlyteLiving 
Those are all wonderful ideas. I do them all and agree they are effective. One additional way I manage time with my family is giving and respecting everyone’s free time. We all have assignments, responsibilities, etc., and we are all given free time where no one can interrupt or interfere. We use that time for completely personal activities like catching up on reading a book, pursuing a hobby, or anything specific to our individual interests—no chores or group activities.
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I love these! I’m a soon to be Mom and I’m so excited for spending time with my kiddos. And your yard and trees are GORGEOUS
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Im failing to my family as time we refer! I hardly find a balance between all my dutys and the fun part. But I’ll follow your tips, and try better, because, family is the best gift of all!
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